I have given suggestions for all those in relationships
through my Random Romantic Tip posts. However, what about the single people of
the world?! Don’t worry, this post is for you. Well actually, it is for us
since I am single too. Although we don’t have a special someone in our life doesn’t
mean we can’t treat ourselves to something nice and relaxing like I suggested
for the couples. Therefore, below I have a little advice for you to have a
great Sunday evening as well.
Go out and buy your favorite dinner. Or if you want, make
your favorite dinner at home. Be sure to pick up a dessert and a bottle of good
wine or other beverage of choice (it can be alcoholic or not). Before you eat your
dinner put on some relaxing music and light some candles (or dim the ceiling lights).
Once this is done, be sure your dinner is put away and can stay warm. Next, put
your phone on silent and take a nice hot shower. Stand in the shower and the
let the hot water run on our head and feel it as it streams down your body. Pay
attention to every strand of water running down your body and let it relax you.
After your shower, put on some comfortable clothing and proceed to you dinner.
Prepare your plate and pour your drink. At this point, turn your music up a little
louder so you can really take in the vibes of the sounds. Sing along with the
music if you want. As you eat your dinner, take slow bites and savor every part
of the meal. As you eat, drink, and listen to the music, think of some fun
memories/stories from your past. Remember, its ok to laugh out loud to yourself
too. Whatever you do just allow yourself to be totally relaxed.
After you finish dinner, go get your dessert. Sit on your
couch or lie in bed and put your feet up. Eat your dessert slowly as you
continue to listen to the music. Let yourself slip into the melodies of the
music. Now, remember this next tip. DO NOT allow yourself to wonder about what
life would be like if you had a boy/girl-friend. Also, do not worry about the
rigors of life that may be plaguing you at the moment. That will defeat the
whole purpose of this night. This night is about you enjoying yourself. Only
think about how lucky you are to have the ability to be in your own space with
a good dinner, some dessert, and relaxing music. There are many people who
would do unspeakable things to be in your shoes. So appreciate all that you have
going on in your life and don’t allow your mind to toil over thoughts about
what may not be right in your life at the moment.
As the night goes on, continue to relax with your music and
your thoughts. If you can, fall asleep to the sound of the music. If the music doesn’t
allow you to sleep, cut it off and head to bed while you are relaxed and can
have a good night of sleep. I’m sure doing everything above will help you have
a great start to your week.
Happy Sunday!
Justin
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