I wasn’t going to write this Random Romantic Tip until later
this week. But I am having a great day and I am in the mood to write, so here
it goes. Just as I mentioned in my last RRT, in addition to giving step by step
romantic idea, I am going to also share some of the romantic stories from my own
past. With that said, this particular story comes from a relationship I had in
college.
At the time of this story taking place, the girl and I were
about to celebrate our 2 year anniversary. It was during the end of the Fall
semester and my football season has just ended and her sport season had not
quite begun yet. Therefore, aside from preparing for finals, we had more time than
usual to spend with one another. I knew I wanted to do something special for
her; partially because that just what I do, but also because she needed
something good to help get her through finals. She wasn’t a great test taker so
big tests like finals always caused her stress and anxiety. After some serious
thought, I had come up with a great plan.
That morning I woke her up about a hour before the sun was
due to rise. Yes, I actually checked the exact time of the suns rising..don’t
judge me! She had no idea what was going on so I assured her nothing was wrong
and that we were going to take a little drive. Before we hit the freeway, I stopped
at 7-11 and got her some coffee and a donut. I also had one her favorite
blankets in the car so she could be warm and comfortable. We had about a 35min
drive, so I told her to sleep and I would wake her when we arrived. It was dark
out and the road there is curvy but we arrived in Santa Cruz without any
issues. As we pulled up the sun was just starting to come out. It was perfect
timing! There is a little mom & pop restaurant that sits right on the corner
across from the Santa Cruz Boardwalk and the beach. We were their first
customers. I had called early that week and told them we were coming so they wouldn’t
be alarmed when we walked in wearing our pajamas. They are cool folks and were
happy to help me. We ate breakfast and then walked over to the beach. Now,
during this particular time of year there are a bunch of seals (or sea lions, I
don’t know the difference) and otters in the waters of the central California coast.
So as we sat on the beach cuddled up in the big warm blanket we got to see tons
of wildlife. Some in the water and some on the sand. At times there were seals
no more than 20 yards away from us. Plus we were the only ones out there at the
time, it was perfect. Well after about a hour on the beach we decided to head
back to San Jose and start our day. She had no clue that I had more stuff
planned. We got back to town and she had to go to a team meeting and take care
of some other stuff. Oh and before she left my house, we had a quick “anatomy”
quiz. Both of us passed with flying colors, haha. Oh and for the record, this “quiz”
was only quick because of time constraints. Our “tests” were always much longer
and I am always sure to be (cough) very thorough (couch)…
ANYWAYS, she went on
to do her thing and I made sure all was right for the rest of the night. I told
her to be dressed and ready by 7pm. Now our reservations weren’t until 8:30 but
I knew, just as most women I’ve dealt with, she wasn’t going to be ready by
7pm. As I guessed, we didn’t leave her house until nearly 8pm. But it was fine
because my lady was looking very beautiful. I surprised her with dinner at a
delicious Hibachi restaurant. She wasn’t a fan of trying new things but given
the occasion she was happy to give it a try. We had a great meal, shared some
laughs, and really enjoyed being with one another. After dinner, I took her to
San Jose’s popular downtown Christmas in the Park. The weather was in the high
60’s and the sky was clear (if I remember correctly). We walked up and down the
park looking at all the decorated Christmas trees. It’s amazing how creative
some of the children and organizations get with their Christmas tree designs.
There was also some live music being played that night so we sat and listened
to that for a bit. Now, while we were listening to the music, my nose caught the
scent of something with cinnamon and sugar. And like a true husky kid (or maybe
a blood hound) I had to track down what smelled so amazingly amazing. I told
her don’t move, I would be right back. The hunt was on. After some diligent
analysis of the smell and wind patterns, I tracked down a glorious sight…a
CHURRO stand!! Christmas had come early my friends! I will admit I was still
pretty full from dinner. But if you know me, you know my motto when it comes to
dessert/sweets…there’s always room! So I gladly bought four churros, two for
the both of us. Now I knew she was only going to eat one but I couldn’t buy
three for myself. That's not a good look. But if she can’t eat her second
churro, which I knew she couldn’t, she’s was surely going to offer it to me
because she knows I loves me a churro. And sure enough, all went as planned. However,
after I took my last bite. She asked how it was and I told her it was
scrumptious! Then she promptly told me
she knew I bought four on purpose knowing she was only going to eat one haha...my
girl! We had a good laugh about it and she also helped me clean off all the cinnamon
and sugar from my jacket. I can get a little messy when I eat excitedly. We
walked around the park a little more holding hands and truly enjoying one another’s
presence. At times, we would just stop and look at all the people; I held her
close from behind and would give her small kisses on her neck. From time to
time, I would whisper in her ear and tell her how beautiful she was and that I was
so lucky to have her in my life. As the night went on, we kept taking in the
energy of our surroundings, together. I’m not sure what it is like now, but
Christmas in the Park definitely used to have a romantic vibe. This night is
and will always be one of my favorite memories. We had such a great day. I had
never felt so strongly for that girl than I did that day. And in case you’re
wondering, our “anatomy” test that night went very well, as always. ;-)
After writing this story, I started to think about the fact
that I get asked quite often why or how I am still single. It has happened
quite often lately. I’m guessing it’s because people think I am good guy and
should be in a relationship. Maybe they think I am a good guy and possibly
somewhat attractive too? I am honestly not really sure. But just as I tell all
of them, I don’t know why I am single. Hell, if I knew I would likely do something
about it! No but seriously, I really don’t know nor do I like to let myself
worry about that too much. Yall all know I am a hopeless romantic, so of course
I would love to be with someone that I can care for and be happy with every day.
However, that’s just not the case right now. Who knows, maybe tomorrow I will
meet someone. Maybe I met someone this past week or in the past month that will
come back around. I don’t know. And sure there are girls from my past that I would
love to be with right now. In fact, I am confident that with at least one of
them, we would truly be happy for a long time. But unfortunately it’s not that
way, at least not right now. And that is ok. I will never beg someone to be
with me. The girl will never have any doubts what I can bring to the table in
regards to being a boyfriend. I always go above and beyond. So again, why am I single?
Who knows. But when the time comes I am sure we can all agree it will be an absolutely
beautiful relationship and the two of us will be very blessed to have one another.
It is for this reason I gladly wait patiently for that day.
Be sure to tell your
special someone how much you care about them and how appreciative you are that
they’re in your life.
Here’s to romance and happiness!
Justin
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